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Feel Better? or Get Better?
“If you want to feel better, take a pill; If you want to get better, then face the truth.” ~ from Numb3rs, “One Hour”, Season 3,…
Dealing with a Narcissist
If you answer Yes to 5 or more of the following questions it is very likely that you are dealing…
Strutting Deceiver, Liar, Controller
Put another way … How to Recognise the Narcissist in your Life Deceiver The narcissist is at all times a…
Recognising the Narcissist
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Narcissism
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Successful Negotiation
When negotiating, be pleasant, cheerful, and safe. Do not be disrespectful or angry. Do not negotiate with another when the…
Love and Marriage
Marriage is a great opportunity to learn about unconditional love and to model that to self, spouse, and children. Imagine…
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relate – relating – relationship
Put effort into paying attention to each other.
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